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章莹颖遗体找到:成年人的痛苦,是后会无期!

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章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎:成年人的痛苦,是后会无期



章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

Zhidong Wang (C), attorney and spokesman for the Zhang family speaks to reporters with Ronggao Zhang, father of Yingying Zhang, in Peoria, Illinois, U.S. July 18, 2019. REUTERS/Robert Chiarito© ReutersZhidong Wang (C), attorney and spokesman for the Zhang family speaks to reporters with Ronggao Zhang, father of Yingying Zhang, in Peoria, Illinois, U.S. July 18, 2019. REUTERS/Robert Chiarito  

2019年7月19日,罪犯克里斯藤森被判处终身监禁。半个多月后,章莹颖的遗体下落终于被公布。章莹颖家人的代理律师史蒂文⋅贝克特说,在2017年6月9日杀害章莹颖后,克里斯滕森将她的遗体放在三个单独的垃圾袋里,并于第二天将这些垃圾袋扔在了公寓外面的垃圾箱里。6月12日,他再将章莹颖的衣服、其他随身物品以及清理犯罪现场的用品全部放在一个大行李袋中,随后开车将之扔到住处附近的垃圾箱内。

面对这样的审判结果和真相,章家人表示虽然不认可但接受,并决定按照中国的传统,在美国为女儿立下一座坟墓纪念她。可他们心里的苦和失去女儿的痛又有谁可以真正体会得到。然而现实世界的残酷就是如此,当我们还是孩子时,面对不公和痛苦,我们哭闹着坚信等长大了,就一定有能力摆脱。然而,等真正长大,我们才发现,成年人的世界,痛苦往往没有道理可言,我们除了接受,毫无办法。

章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

Xiaolin Hou, the boyfriend of Yingying Zhang, a visiting scholar at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign who authorities say was kidnapped near a bus stop on campus June 9, speaks during a news conference with the family at the I Hotel and Conference Center in Champaign, Ill., on Tuesday, Aug. 22, 2017. (Erin Hooley/Chicago Tribune/TNS via Getty Images)© GettyXiaolin Hou, the boyfriend of Yingying Zhang, a visiting scholar at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign who authorities say was kidnapped near a bus stop on campus June 9, speaks during a news conference with the family at the I Hotel and Conference Center in Champaign, Ill., on Tuesday, Aug. 22, 2017. (Erin Hooley/Chicago Tribune/TNS via Getty Images)  
早年间,蔡康永曾经专访过成龙,提的第一个问题就是:“拍电影累不累?”。然而,就这样一个看似简单的不能再简单的问题,却让成龙在节目中哭了整整15分钟。这个银幕上铁骨铮铮的汉子,展示出来的永远是自己的光芒万丈,但内心,不知是多少的锈迹斑斑才能使他因为短短的一句问候而情绪崩溃。

万达茂总经理徐毓,赚着很多人一辈子也赚不到的钱,有着别人都羡慕的社会地位与幸福家庭,却在发给丈夫一条只有“对不起”三个字的微信过后,选择跳楼自杀。 她的朋友后来道出,万达茂给她的压力太大了。那些在城市的高压中默默修炼着的成年人,往往也是一脚天堂,一脚地狱。

章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

章莹颖遗体找到、细节令人心碎

FILE - This 2016 selfie provided by her family shows Yingying Zhang in a cap and gown for her graduate degree in environmental engineering from Peking University Shenzhen Graduate School in China. Brendt Christensen's will serve a sentence of life in prison because a federal jury said Thursday, July 18, 2019, it could not unanimously agree he should receive the death penalty in the 2017 abduction, rape and killing of 26-year-old Yingying Zhang. (Zhang Family Photo via AP, File)© APFILE - This 2016 selfie provided by her family shows Yingying Zhang in a cap and gown for her graduate degree in environmental engineering from Peking University Shenzhen Graduate School in China. Brendt Christensen's will serve a sentence of life in prison because a federal jury said Thursday, July 18, 2019, it could not unanimously agree he should receive the death penalty in the 2017 abduction, rape and killing of 26-year-old Yingying Zhang. (Zhang Family Photo via AP, File)  
庭审过后,章莹颖家人随后召开了记者招待会。不像章莹颖父亲一样不善言辞,章莹颖的男友,用中英双语,脱稿表达了他对庭审的看法。“对我而言,今天的结果是鼓励人们犯罪。”这个二十多岁的青年,红着脸,尽管他极力压制着自己,但我们还是可以看出他的愤怒。正值芳华却失去挚爱,又面对不公的审判,这个血气方刚的年轻人表现出远比章父章母更加激动的神情。然而,我们每个人都是一样,都渴望拥有完美的爱情,可现实往往告诉我们,遗憾,才是人生的常态。

然而失去的就永远失去了吗?也并不一定。《相约星期二》中说到,只要你还被记着,爱着,你就永远没有死去。《向往的生活》里,谭松韵曾经做客,讲到自己的愿望时,她假装轻松地说:“我只希望我能梦到她(妈妈),然后我爱的人都很好,很健康。”

我们无法预知生死,不知道何时我们爱的人就会离我们而去,然而,我们能做到的,便是即使无法相见,也不会忘怀。村上春树曾经说过:“孤独一个人没有关系,只要发自内心地爱着一个人,人生就会有救。”

章莹颖虽然已经逝去,案子也总有被人淡忘的一天。但我们相信爱她的人永远不会忘记这个世界上曾有这样一个女孩,留下过短暂却又绚烂的一笔。我们也更希望章家人可以尽早从痛苦中走出来,代替章莹颖,好好活下去。

来源:MSN




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